Friendship for Grown-Ups: What I Missed and Learned Along the Way Review

Book by: Lisa Whelchel 

Publisher's Synopsis:

Former Facts of Life star Lisa Whelchel shares her experiences of growing up without true friends and how she learned to find and develop them as an adult through God's grace.


Not many people can say they lived their most crucial developmental years on the sound stage of a wildly popular TV show. But that's exactly what happened in Lisa Whelchel's life. As a child, she learned to guard her heart so tightly to avoid true hurt that she found herself unable to form lasting friendships as an adult.
Friendship for Grown-Ups details her experiences of learning to come out of her shell, to trust, risk, and become vulnerable by God's grace and find meaningful friendships. Readers encounter her captivating story and refreshing perspective on life's most precious gift—and they find practical tips for their own friendships along the way. 

My Thoughts:

I remember watching the Facts of Life as a kid, having recently moved to a new city where I knew no one, I thought this book would be interesting. While reading this book, I was looking for advice/reminders on how to make friends (again). It's not as easy make friends as an adult as it was as a child. While making acquaintances was quick, making friends - good friends whom you know will be there for you involves more time and effort. In our fast paced society, we want things now. Where is the drive thru window for a Friend? -- If you find it, let me know.

I found it interesting to read about a TV Star from my childhood. While some of the situations she faced seemed disconnected from my "normal" childhood. I was able to find a number of helpful advice/tidbits to learn from her. Sections of this book challenged me to open up to those in my life.  I appreciated the discussion guide, a “Practical Steps for Developing and Growing Friendships” guide, and conversation prompts included at the end of the book. Beyond how was your day, what do you do for work/school, my small talk was limited. The conversation prompts have helped further build a few relationships with friends.

Thanks to Thomas Nelson who provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for my honest thoughts, opinions of this book.